Safety Tips for Dating Online
Online dating is very popular because, when people can learn about someone before meeting, it is safer than some bars and nightclubs and is cost-effective. Most sites, whether they are designed for traditional dating or local sex, offer free memberships to people. Free memberships are limited, but people can still create a profile, view other profiles, and send winks to profiles of interest. Full memberships usually have many more advantages, such as adding more photographs, being able to send and receive messages to all members, and having access to advanced search options. There are thousands of people online, so it is important to take some safety precautions.
The first tip regards photographs. Be sure that pictures posted on any site do not indicate the house or apartment building of residence, the car driven, a work address, or any family members or friends. Most people who have dating profiles online are genuine, but there are always some that are not. It is unsafe to reveal specific information that could lead to someone finding out where you live or work. Look at each picture carefully before posting it. Check the background to determine if it indicates any specific locations, landmarks, or office buildings. The next tip is never to disclose any financial information. Scammers can use the information to steal identities, wipe out bank accounts, and ruin credit. Requests for financial help should always be ignored.
Other tips may seem like common sense, but are worth remembering. Be honest when developing a profile so people know what to expect. Do not claim to be a size five when the truth is closer to a size fourteen. Eventually, people may want to meet, and they will see the actual person. That should not be entirely different than the online profile. Being deceived is not fun, so do not deceive either. This is especially important when on a site that focuses on casual sex as a goal. It can be dangerous because there is no way to predict how someone will react to lies at a first meeting. If unsure about appearances, ask to see a recent picture before agreeing to meet.
Trust natural instincts. If something or someone does not seem quite right, disengage communication. Do not get pressured into meeting with someone. Meet when it feels comfortable and not before. Be realistic in expectations. If the profile has been viewed on a website for finding local sex, there will be no long-lasting emotional connection established. If that is what is desired, place a profile on a more appropriate website.
